理想和現實之間:不是豐滿與骨幹,而是做與不做
Stop making big decisions and focus on closing the gap with where you want to be.
不再做不切實際的決定，而是把精力集中於如何縮小夢想與現實的差距。A successful life is not made of easy, clean cut choices.
成功的生活不是簡單利落的做幾個選擇就能獲得。Have you ever seen a guy desperately enamoured with a girl, but he can't bear to talk to her? Or someone who wants to get fit, but they won't step in a gym? How about someone who wants better career options but stays exactly where they are?
你有見過男孩深深迷戀着女孩，卻不敢跟她說話嗎？或者有些人想減肥，卻沒有進過健身房？那有沒有見過一些人希望有更好的職業選擇，卻停在當下、固步自封嗎？
Start take lots of continuous small steps. Take something you love doing - or if you're not sure what that is, something you'd like to try. And move towards it now.
開始通過小步驟不斷積累。着手做一些你喜歡的事——如果你不確定是什麼，做你想嘗試的事。從現在開始向目標前進。You don't have to choose between a well-paid job you don't like and the unknown. You have countless other options:
你不必在不瞭解的事和高薪工作之間做選擇。你還有很多其他選擇：1. Start up a small business in your evenings
1. 利用晚上時間開展新業務2. Ask your boss what you could do for them to get promoted
2. 詢問老闆要做什麼可以獲得晉升3. Teach yourself a new skill that interests you
3. 自學你感興趣的技能4. Write a blog or a book
4. 寫博客或書Some steps will lead to greater things. But as long as you sit feeling paralysed, I can assure you nothing will change at all.
不積跬步無以成千裏。但只要你覺得自己做不好，我可以向你保證任何事都不會發生變化。Do not, and I shall repeat for emphasis, do not defer this until a "better time". If you make a habit of that, you'll wake up one idle Monday and wonder how you let your whole life fly away.
千萬不要，我要重複強調下，千萬不要拖延以等待“更好的時機”。如果你把拖延變成習慣，你將在某個週一慵懶的醒來，然後想你如何讓一生都飛速流逝。
