走向成功必備的10大好習慣
1. A handshake can make or break a first impression, so practice, practice, practice! Demonstrate your self-confidence and genuine interest by executing a firm shake.
掌握握手技巧，一個有效的握手，可以給人印象深刻，因此好好學學把，在握手的同時展現你的自信和真誠。
2. Don't be shy! Attend events related to the industry that you're interested in and mingle. Whether you're waiting in line at the coat check or sitting up at the bar, you just never know who you might meet.
拒絕害羞。積極參與你感興趣的活動，無論你是在酒吧還是在排隊，記住沒人認識你。
3. While chatting it up with people you've just met, be sure to talk about topics other than the industry you're trying to break into. Listen and ask questions. It's important to showcase your personality, and who knows, maybe you'll find out that you share common interests!
和別人第一次聊天時，記住談論你熟悉的話題，而不是你感興趣的話題。
4. Don't be too pushy. When meeting someone new, don't simply shove your resume at them. Everyone knows you're talented, so establish a friendship first. After all, no one likes to feel as though they're being used.
不要太強勢。在陌生人面前，不要一味想着向別人介紹你的優勢，是金子總會發光的。
5. When attending events, don't forget to ask for a person's business card or contact information at the end of a conversation. People love to know that others are interested in what they do, so chances are, they would love to continue talking with you, even if it's just via email.
認識新朋友的時候，記住向別人要名片或者是聯繫方式。
6. That being said, be ready to hand out a business card of your own! Some may think that business cards are outdated, but it's a lot easier to remember to contact someone with a concrete reminder sitting in a coat pocket.
記住隨身攜帶自己的名片。你也許會認爲名片已經過時了，但是名片卻是最好的聯繫方式。
7. Stop apologizing. Too often, inexperienced networkers tend to apologize to those they're reaching out to. If you don't think you're worth their time, why would they? And more importantly, networking doesn't have to be a think of it as building new relationships!
停止道歉。很多初出茅廬的人總喜歡因爲自己的一點錯誤而不停地道歉，告訴自己你值得他們花費那些時間，當然，人際交往絕不是一個負擔。
8. People receive tons of emails each day, so it's easy to miss one. To make a more lasting (and tangible!) impression, send a handwritten note when saying "thank you." Even if it's a coffee date with a friend of a friend, a handwritten note adds a personal touch as you thank someone for their time.
感謝他人的時候最好用手寫的信。每天我們的郵箱都會充斥太多的電子信件，我們很難去看到每一個信的。
9. Follow up. Again, potential employers meet new people every day, so it's important to stay on their radar by sending an email or making a call every few months. Just started a new internship? Finished an awesome class project? Let them know! It shows them you're gaining experience and reminds them that you're out there.
時時跟進。每一個星期或一個月寫email或者打電話去關注你要關注的事情。
10. And finally, take a risk. Many people fear networking because they're afraid they'll be rejected. Such a fear will prevent you from meeting interesting (and interested!) people.
勇於冒險。很多人不喜歡交際，怕被人拒絕，但這也是機會喪失的原因。
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