約會中男人希望女人做的12件事（雙語）
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What do men past a certain age want to see more of on dates? Below, HuffPost Divorce bloggers share what they wish more women would do before, during and after dates.
成熟的男人希望在約會中看到什麼呢?在約會前、約會中和約會後，男人希望女人做些什麼呢?下面，HuffPost Divorce的博主分享了他們的想法。
Take it away, guys.
小夥伴們拿走慢慢看吧。
1. "If we've never met before, make a definite first move to establish whether we’re doing a handshake or hug. Doesn’t matter which, just help ease that awkward first greeting." -- Barry Gold
1. “如果我們從沒見過面，你應該主動明確我們是要握手還是擁抱。哪一樣都沒有關係，這只是爲了減輕第一次問好的尷尬。”——巴里•高德
2. "Please forgive the first 10 dumb things I say and do (if they are not deal-breakers for you) as I’m a mess. The second date will be better, I promise." -- Antonio Sacre, author of My Name is Cool: Stories from a Cuban-Irish-American Storyteller
2. “請原諒我一開始說的和做的10件蠢事(如果它們沒讓你對我絕望的話)，我經常會把事情搞砸。我保證第二次約會會變好的。”——安東尼奧•薩克，《我的名字很酷——一個古巴-愛爾蘭裔美國人講述的故事》的作者
3. "Don't ask why I'm divorced until at least the third date. I know you want to know about past relationships but on the first date I'm not ready." -- Elliott Katz, author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants: Timeless Wisdom on Being a Man
3. “至少在第三次約會之前都不要問我爲什麼離婚了。我知道你想了解我過去的感情生活，但在第一次約會時我還沒準備好說出來。”——埃利奧特•卡茨，《男人要有責任感女人才有安全感》的作者
4. "Let me hold the door open for you." -- Chad Stone, author of The Love Magnet Rules
4. “讓我爲你把門打開。”——查德•斯通，《愛情磁鐵法則》的作者
5. "If you are a heart surgeon waiting for an urgent text to save someone’s life, by all means, have your phone on the table. Otherwise, please put it away." -- Antonio Sacre
5. “如果你是個心臟外科醫生，正在等着一條緊急短信去救人性命，那你一定要把手機放在桌子上。否則就請把手機拿開。”——安東尼奧•薩克
6. "Offer to pay. I have no problem paying for dinner but please at least give us 'the reach.' Make a move for the check a) so the guy can say, 'Please, let me get this!' and b) it proves you are at least interested enough to invest in the evening." -- Craig Tomashoff
6. “主動付錢。晚飯我付賬沒問題，但請至少給我們一個表現自己的機會。主動去付賬，那樣的話 a) 男方就有機會說“請讓我來付吧!” b) 你至少看起來對這個晚上有足夠的興趣，願意爲此投入。”——克雷格•托馬索福
7. "Compliment us. I work out and one of the reasons I do so -- outside of staying healthy -- is so women can see that I'm a man who takes care of himself." -- Lee Kronert, author of Mental Cruelty: A Novel for Divorced Men
7. “讚美我們吧。我健身的原因之一(除了保持健康)是讓女性看到我是一個懂得照顧自己的男人。”——李•克隆耐爾，《精神的殘暴——一本給離婚男人看的小說》的作者
8. "A little encouragement goes a long way. Silence is not golden. 'I’m having fun' is cool." --Ken Solin, author of The Boomer Guide to Finding True Love Online
8. “一點鼓勵就會有持久的效果。沉默不是金。說‘我很開心’就很棒。”——肯•索林，《網上尋找真愛的潮流指南》的作者
9. "Disagree with us! Quiz us. Debate us. Really throw down the gauntlet by claiming 'Die Hard' isn’t the greatest movie of all time. Challenging us means you’re interested in how we think and that’s the sexiest experience a guy could ask for." -- Craig Tomashoff
9. “有不同的意見儘管說出來!讓我們猜謎，和我們辯論吧。向我們發出挑戰，儘管說《虎膽龍威》不是有史以來最偉大的電影。挑戰我們意味着你對我們的思維方式很感興趣，這就是女人讓男人最感興趣的體驗了。”——克雷格•托馬索福
10. "During the date, a light touch on the hand or arm says a lot about your interest in us. No, we won’t consider it foreplay." -- Ken Solin
10. “在約會中，如果你輕輕碰到我們的手或手臂，那就說明你對我們很感興趣。我們不會把那看作是前戲的。”——肯•索林
11. "Don’t talk badly about your ex because if you are going to talk badly about him, then I have no doubt that at some point, you'll be talking badly about me to some other stranger." -- Al DeLuise
11. “不要說你前任的壞話，因爲如果你說前任壞話，在某種程度上我就會擔心你也會在別的陌生人面前說我的壞話。”——艾爾•德路易斯
12. "After a date, please pick up the phone when I call. A call means I really like you." -- Chad Stone
12. “約會過後，請接起我的來電。我給你打電話說明我真的很喜歡你。”——查德•斯通
