全心全意愛對方不如多愛自己
I have ever had abundant love experiences. My most impressive perception is that it is the best to be single.
我曾經有過豐富的感情經歷。最深的體會是，不愛的時候狀態最好。
When you love someone, all your attention is focused on him. You will be missing him, expecting to see him, worrying about him and feeling sad about him. In all, your whole heart has been dedicated to him without the least to yourself. All your happiness and sorrows stem from external factors, while all your giving and expectation will oftentimes result in desperation. The bigger your anticipation, the deeper your desperation.
當愛一個人的時候，你的心思都在他的身上，想着他，盼着他，擔心是他，發愁是他，期望是他，失望是他，一顆心都在他人身上時，便沒有了自己。你的喜怒哀樂，都是因爲外在的原因。而一切的付出和期待，往往得到的是失望。期望越大，失望也越大。
When you are single, you will concentrate on yourself. You will arrange your dressing and dietary in a healthy manner and do whatever you like without considering others’ views. Only at that time will you feel downright relieved mentally and live entirely for yourself.
不愛的時候，你的心思才收回到自己身上，爲了自己的健康去合理地衣食住行，爲了自己的美麗隨心所欲地打扮，想成什麼樣就什麼樣，想做什麼人就做什麼人，不必考慮他人的眼光。這時你才能感覺到徹底的心靈上的自由和解放，完全爲自己的喜好而活着。
When you are single, your mindset is the most placid and calm. It is also the easiest time for you to get along with others without too much hospitality, doubt, sensitivity, anger, anxiety and sadness and illusion.
不愛的時候，心情最爲平靜，心態最爲平穩，性情最爲淡泊，與他人最好相處。沒有多餘的熱情，沒有多疑的猜忌，沒有受傷的敏感，沒有變態的惱怒，沒有期望的焦慮，沒有失望的傷心，沒有不着邊際的幻想。
When you are single, you have more time to enrich your soul and ameliorate your life quality. You have more passion towards your friends and more free time to do your favorites. Moreover, you have more confidence to actualize yourself!
不愛的時候，你有更多的時間用於豐富自己的心靈，有更多的精力來用於改善自己的生活，有更多的熱情分散給朋友們，有更多的閒暇用於做你自己真正喜歡的事情，有更多的自信和篤定來塑造真正的自己。
Love, especially between man and woman, is the most complicated thing in the world. Once you get trapped into it, you will be persecuted by endless emotional troubles. The volatility of human’s thinking and life affairs also add more difficulty to keeping an eternal love. Instead of being terribly bothered by loving someone, why not love yourself more?
感情，尤其是男女之間的感情，是世上最複雜最難解的方程式。深陷其中的人，無一不被煩惱和困惑纏繞，人心的複雜多變，世事的紛繁無常，都增添了感情這道題的難度，與其深陷其中而永世不得超生，不如多一些關愛給自己……
