雙語美文：好好生活，才能好好愛家人
A great lifestyle is a big contributor
良好的生活方式會是一種巨大的助力
to improve your health
能改善你的健康
or to your relationship.
還能讓你與身旁其他人的關係更好
It should be the top of the list
這樣的生活方式應該是頭等重要的事情
because we cannot think the right way if we are not healthy,
因爲，當我們的身體不夠健康的時候，我們就不能順暢的思考
we cannot perform our job well
不能很好的完成工作任務
and become less effective in our respective responsibilities
履行自己應該承擔的職責時，也會事倍功半
if we do not practice good lifestyle or perhaps a good habit.
如果我們不履行良好的生活方式，或者養成一個良好的習慣的話。
We cannot spend quality time to our love ones if we are sick,
當我們生病的時候，我們就不能專注於陪伴自己所愛的人
though it is inevitable sometimes that we can get sick.
雖然有時候，人都難以避免的會生病
An observation in our generation today,
縱觀當下我們所處的時代
all walks of life,
各行各業
regardless of age and gender,
無論年齡與性別
health is the most neglected aspect.
健康都是我們最容易忽略的因素
It can even affect a relationship.
健康甚至會影響情感羈絆的惡化
A certain man came to our clinic
曾經，有一個男人到我們診所來
and wanted to include he’s son to be on the list
想要給自己的兒子預約掛號
to have it check by our specialist.
請診所裏的專家爲他做身體檢查
I’ve noticed he’s son about early twenties,
我注意到，他的兒子大約二十出頭
having tattoos on he’s arms and neck .
手臂和脖子上都有紋身
So my impression was that
對此我的印象是
this young guy is cool,
這個男孩子真酷
but behind my head,
但在我內心深處，我卻在想
why he was doing this on he’s body?
他爲什麼要在自己的身體上做這樣的事情？
Judging he’s appearance , he is sick.
從他的臉色來看，他身體不適
Obviously, he’s father is not in a good mood.
而且很明顯，他的父親此刻心情不佳
I cannot draw he’s face even if I am an artist,
我想，即便自己是個畫家，也不可能畫出他的面貌
but I am not.
何況我並不是畫家
That was what I have observed to a troubled father.
這就是我從這位滿心煩怨的父親臉上找到的東西
So they went inside the clinic to see their doctor.
接着，父子倆走進診室去看醫生
In less than thirty minutes
不到半個小時他們就走出了診室
they came out with a facial expression that cannot be spelled.
臉上帶着難以言喻的表情
I know he’s son is in great trouble on he’s health.
我知道，一定是年輕男子的健康出了很大的問題
They are having conversations
父子倆在交談
that suggest disappointments in a son and a father relationship.
言語間可以聽出，兩人都對雙方的父子關係感到極大的失望
He’s parents were separated
他的父母已經分開了
and didn’t have much having a happy family.
他幾乎沒有體驗過家庭生活的幸福
Sometimes, this unlikely habit can affect a relationship.
有時，一種糟糕的習慣會影響人與人之間的關係
Every parent’s burden
對每個家長來說，最擔心的事情
is when their children choose a different path that leads them astray,
就是孩子們選擇了一條偏離正軌的人生方向
in spite of their effort to impose proper discipline,
儘管自己施加適當的管束，卻沒有作用
or guiding them the right way.
儘管自己想要將他們引向正確的道路，卻無計可施
But sometimes,
有時
it is unfortunate to some parents who experience this kind of situation.
許多家長都會遇到這樣的困境，多麼不幸
We can extent our support to them.
我們能對他們給予幫助
To the young people who wanted to destroy themselves
對那些想要毀掉自己的年輕人來說
is by trying to damage their well-being,
他們往往竭力毀壞自己的身體
in a way, health will be put to danger.
如此一來，他們的健康狀況就受到了威脅
Parents would not allow this.
父母一定會加以阻止
Thus, a relationship will ruin.
因此，親子關係就會惡化
When we desire to change our lifestyle,
當我們想要改變自己的生活方式
let’s make it sure that it will not destroy our relationship,
就必須確認，這不會影響我們與他人的關係
but rather improve it or make it better.
而是改善我們與他人的關係，讓這些情感關係變得更好
