四大類型的情侶,你們是哪種?
Many people wonder what the secret to long-lasting love is. Whilst mutual trust, loyalty and a shared love of Game Of Thrones might spring to mind, scientists believe they've determined the formula to figuring out whether you're well-suited to your partner - and it's all down to how you behave together. A study published in the Journal of Family and Marriage has identified four types of relationship and revealed which type is most likely to get married.
許多人都好奇愛情常青的祕密。我們心裏最先想到的就是相互信任、忠誠和《權力的遊戲》中的那種同心同德。科學家們相信他們已經確定了一種公式，這種公式能夠搞清楚你和伴侶是否彼此合適——這完全取決於你們在一起時的行爲。一項發表在《家庭與婚姻》雜誌上的研究聲稱其確定了四種愛情類型，並公佈了最可能結婚的愛情類型。Do you and your partner have a rollercoaster relationship? You fit into the first group, which is dubbed 'dramatic'?
你和伴侶有着“過山車”式的感情嗎？那麼你就屬於第一類情侶了。這種類型的情侶被戲稱爲“戲劇性情侶”。The 'dramatic' section of participants weren't exactly consistent in their affections, often justifying the bad elements of their relationship by claiming that they 'weren't good together'; they are the most likely to break up.
“戲劇性情侶”對待感情並不始終如一，他們經常用“我們在一起並不幸福”來解釋感情中的負面因素；這類情侶最有可能分手。
Scientists also identified a second group called the conflict-ridden couples who tend to argue a lot. Unlike the dramatic couples, though, this second group weren't as likely to break up and didn't have a tainted future.
科學家還定義了第二種情侶，即“吵架傾向型”情侶，這類情侶經常吵架。和“戲劇性情侶”不同，第二種情侶不大容易分手，未來也不太糟糕。The third group - the socially involved - place high emphasis on social approval. So, these couples attribute social reasons - such as 'my parents and friends like them' - for the positive points in their relationship. This type of couple have a bright future thanks to the importance they place on common social networks, as well as having a solid foundation of friendship and cite their partner as their 'best friend' as well as their lover.
第三種情侶——“社交參與型情侶”——很重視社會認同。所以這些情侶會把社會原因當做感情中的積極因素，比如“我父母和朋友都喜歡他們”。由於此類情侶重視共同的社交網絡、有着堅固的友情基礎，並且把對方當做最好的“朋友”和“情人”，所以他們的未來十分明朗。The final - and most successful - group is hailed the partner-focussed have plenty of positive turning points in their relationship and credit their success to having plenty in common, as well as spending a lot of time together focussing on each other's needs. Perhaps unsurprisingly, this group were the least likely to break up - and it's all thanks to them being conscientiousness, indicating that they're people who make long-term relationship goals.
最後一種——也是最成功的一種——“專注伴侶承諾型”情侶。他們的感情中有許多正面能量，他們把各自的成功歸功於彼此的共同點；同時他們也會花費很多時間用於關注對方的需求。毫無意外，此類情侶最不可能分手——這都歸功於他們的責任心。當然，這也意味着他們視彼此爲長期伴侶目標。
