千萬不要對男人說這些話
Things You Should Never Say to Men
千萬不要對男人說這些話
YOU ARE A MAMA'S BOY
你就是個媽寶男
Dating a "mama's boy" is always hard, but if you love your man and want to spend your life with him, you should never say that he is a "mama's boy." Accept this fact and don't try to change him. If your man is a "mama's boy" in his 20s, he will be "mama's boy" in his 40s too. Are you ready for it? If yes, then love and appreciate his mom more than your mom, and he will love you till the end of his life.
與媽寶男約會是件很辛苦的事情，但如果你愛他並希望和他共度餘生，那一定不要對他說這句話。接受這一事實，不要試圖改變他。如果他在20多歲時是媽寶男，那麼即便到了40歲，他也仍舊是個媽寶男。你準備好了嗎？如果你已經做好準備，那就愛他的媽媽勝過愛自己的媽媽，他也會一直愛你，直到生命的盡頭。
Personally I avoid this type of man because any wrong word about him or his mother can ruin your relationship in a jiff. This is a lesson I learned from my own experience.
就個人而言，我會盡量避開這類男人，因爲只要說錯一句關於他或者他母親的話都可能葬送這段感情，這也是我個人的“血淚感情史”。
TELL ME MORE ABOUT YOUR EX
多講講你的前任吧
Although we know that we shouldn't dwell on past relationships, it's tempting to know more details about your boyfriend's ex. Avoid talks about exes, especially about intimate details. If you have a crush on a guy, but he doesn't show any signs he likes you, or he has a girlfriend, don't ask him if he slept with her.
雖然我們都知道，糾結於過去的感情不是件好事，但卻剋制不住地想要了解現男友的前女友。避開前任話題，尤其是關於親密關係的討論。如果你喜歡這個男人，但他並沒有表現出喜歡你的跡象，或者他已經有女朋友了，千萬不要問他是不是已經和女朋友睡過了。
You will never win his heart with this question, as well as you will never improve your relationship when you know about your partner's exes.
如果問了這個問題，你就再也不會俘獲他的心了。此外，當你對另一半的前任有了詳細瞭解後，這並不利於你們的感情發展。
LOOK THAT GIRL LOOKS SO FABULOUS!
快看，那妹子真好看！
This sentence ruined many relationships. While it seems to be so simple and common, if you tell it to your partner and he will say "yes" or "fantastic" or something like that, chances are you will get jealous and it may lead to a fight. You probably start asking questions like, "Is she more beautiful than me?" or "Would you like to date her?"
這句話毀了很多戀情。雖然這句話看似簡單平常，但如果你說了這句話後，另一半迴應道“的確挺好看的”等諸如此類的評價，那你很有可能產生嫉妒心理，從而引發爭吵。你可能會接着問，“她有我好看嗎”或者“難道你想和她約會？”
First, you may say that you're just curious and you simply want to know his thought. But if he says "yes," it will be the end of the world. If he says "no," you will think that he's trying to hide the truth from you, and it will be the end of the world as well. Ladies, it's a sure sign of low self-esteem.
一開始你可能只是出於好奇說了這句話，也許你只是單純地想要知道他的想法。但如果他說“是挺好看的”，那可就是世界末日了。如果他說“我覺得不好看”，你就會覺得他在說謊，這也是世界末日。女士們，這可是自卑的跡象啊。
