千萬不要對男票說的9句話！否則玩完指日可待
1. “Nevermind, I’ll just do it myself.”
1、"沒關係，我會自己搞定。"
When you ask your spouse to call the plumber to fix the sink, give him a chance to do it.
你叫配偶打電話給管道師傅修水斗的時候，給他個機會。
It’s a frustrating phrase for a husband to hear because it suggests you don’t think he’s capable of completing the task and don’t need him.
這句話丈夫會讓丈夫有挫敗感，因爲這意味着你不覺得他搞得定這活，而且不也不需要他。
2. “You should have known.”
2、"你應該曉得的。"
Women become upset when their husbands can’t read between the lines or read their minds but guys are notoriously poor mind readers. Wives will save themselves a lot of grief if they can come to accept this.
如果丈夫聽不懂弦外之音、讀不懂她們的心聲，女性會不安。但衆人皆知男性就是讀不懂女人的心。如果太太們能接受這一切，可以省卻不少悲傷。
3. “Do you think she’s hot?”
3、"你覺得她熱辣麼?"
Do you really want to know your husband’s thoughts about an attractive woman? You’re putting your spouse in an uncomfortable, no-win situation.
你是真的想知道你丈夫是怎麼看那個魅力女子的?你會讓你的配偶不舒服，這個局面會兩敗俱傷。
4. “We need to talk.”
4、"我們談談。"
No four words strike fear into a married man’s heart quite like “we need to talk.” The phrase is often a signal that the wife has complaints or criticism about the husband.
沒有哪四個字比“我們談談”更讓已婚男性害怕的了。這句話通常顯示妻子對丈夫有抱怨和批評之意。
5. “Man up.”
5、"男人一點。"
Telling your spouse to ‘man up’ is a brutal attack on his core ’s a statement loaded with contempt and shame and could create relationship damage that will be difficult to heal.
叫你的配偶“男人一點”就是粗暴攻擊他的核心身份。這句話滿是鄙夷和羞辱，會引發關係破裂、難以修復。
6. “Pick up after yourself. I’m not your mother.”
6、"自己收拾乾淨，我又不是你媽。"
Many men are sensitive about their relationship with their mother, so suggesting he still wants or needs his mom is not a way to encourage him to change behavior you don’t like.
許多男人對母子關係很敏感，所以若希望他改變你不待見的行爲，暗示他還需要媽媽並不是什麼好方法。
7. “You never, you should have, you ought to...”
7、"你從來就不該這樣，你應該..."
It’s much better to say, ‘I’d appreciate it if you would empty the dishwasher tonight. And when he does, thank him and you can expect more help in the future.
說“如果你今晚能洗碗機的碗收拾掉”要好得多。如果他照做了，就謝謝他，以後還能期待他幫更多忙。
8. “You’ve put on a few pounds lately, huh?”
8、“你最近胖了點兒。”
Instead of pointing out changes in your spouse’s appearance, be supportive and tell him you’d love if he joined you at your cycle class sometime.
不要直接指出配偶外形的變化，要站在他一邊，告訴他如果哪天願意加入你的單車課你會很開心的。
9. “You’re going out with the guys again?”
9、“你又要和那撥人一起出去了？”
There’s a good chance he’ll actually be a better husband if he can compare notes with other husbands and dads.
如果他可以和其他先生和爸爸們比較比較，他很有可能成爲更好的丈夫。
